You've been together several months, but something doesn't feel quite right with your partner. You start wondering if he or she might be having an affair. Is it jealousy, your imagination or just apathy that is the result of long-term complacency with each other? It can be hard to tell sometimes, but when in doubt go with your gut and look for the following behaviors that might mean your mate is having an affair.

Some people do the evaluative process when planning for a family. Sometimes it takes the illness or death of a family member, or some other tragic event to make us stop and see if we are taking our life in the right direction.

The point is arm yourself with the foresight of the potential consequence of an office relationship. Once you’re accepting of this awareness and your okay with it, proceed on to your newly blossoming office relationship. Like my friend says the only two things that can happen in a relationship is you either break up or worst you get married. If the reality that your personal business might be exposed and put on display daunts you then you should probably refrain from the office romance.

Many of us had their first pen pal when we're a little kid. We wrote to a kid we had never and will never met. The letters opened a new world for us. Once in a while, we see a romantic story in newspapers or talk shows that pen pals write to each other for years without meeting and finally they fall in love.

'In order to become someone else's soul-mate, you must first be your own,' says Drs Derek Hopson and Darlene Powel Hopson in their book, Friends, Lovers & Soul-mate. 'If you don't care about yourself, how can you develop a relationship where someone else cares for you. Unless you accept that you are worthy of good treatment why should anyone else believe it.' If you don't love yourself, discover yourself and know what you want from life and in a relationship, instead of you to be a partner or player, you will be played like a ball. This is truth and nothing but the truth.

The book is based on a 3000 year old wisdom, a lost language of matchmaking that has never been made available to women for purposes of finding the love of their life. I call it the “original recipe for love”. It has all of the ingredients any single woman needs to know. It keeps women like my girlfriend from traipsing all over looking for Mr. Right, never really knowing what she’s looking for.

PERSONALITY: It is important that overall you like your partner's personality. Unless it was a "shotgun wedding" liking your partner’s personality is probably true for most people. If you didn't like your partner's "personality," why would you have married them? During courtship there was a strong attraction. Even after many years of marriage that attraction it is still there, either actualized or hidden in potential. Years of misunderstanding and conflict can build within a person enormous resentment and this accumulated emotion can actually change a person's perception of their partner, leaving one unable to accurately see what he or she is actually like.

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